Mona, I love this discussion. You should love whom ever loves you. Personally, I prefer blonde black women. Don't ask me why. Maybe because I've been married to a blonde and a black woman.
The age thing is interesting. I tend to skew younger because of my love of rap music. However, I'm more comfortable dating women in my age group 45-55.
So far as finances, a man shouldn't date if he cannot afford to buy her dinner and drinks. Just my old fashion opinion.
Society accepts the old geezer with a young woman, but we tend to frown upon a seasoned woman with a young dude.
I saw were Madonna 64 took home a 23 year old male model. I say go Grand Ma. We are never too old to need love and affection.
Thank you for your amazing article.
Cheers!